Sushi And Whinge!

Damn Clam

2010-07-25T19:33:00.009+01:00

After reading a book about Coping with Difficult People, I thought maybe I should try my hand at writing my own self-help. So I started with the Infamous Clam!

We all knew that one annoyingly quiet person who would rather say nothing, than speak at all. No they are not difficult people. I will tell you what difficult people (person) is the dreaded CLAM. They have enough to say when they want to but as soon as you say something they don't want to hear the SHUTTERS come crashing down! Leaving one to wonder 'WHAT THE FUCK!' One thing that you should never think is what did 'I' do, you have done nothing wrong at all they are quiet simply ignoring you. Yes they are painfully rude (DIE BITCH IS WHAT YOU THINK, HOWEVER MURDER IS NOT AN ANSWER OR OPTION SADLY) my personal way to open a Clam is to crack that shit open a.s.a.p.
There is just no excuse for someone not to acknowledge your existence, however angry or pissed they are and generally it is for illogical reasons. Looking back at yourself how do you deal with someone saying something you do not 'Like'. The first port of action is to ask for further explanation and justification of their statement. This is the mindset of a doer; Clams would rather ignore the situation and move on. Or just make inaudible/animal like sounds, this transition from human to animal is swift almost like a change in direction of the wind (you don't even see it coming)

Wondering why they do it is futile! And to be frank who gives a shit, if you are rude there is no explanation needed it is universal. What you should do is ask questions and bombard them until they feel 'Victimised'. I say this inverted comma style because they are not victim they are the ANTI-CHRIST (slightly extreme) Once they feel unjustly attacked they will respond with some pithy excuse that will leave you pissed. So step two once the SHELL IS SMASHED open you begin with questioning such behaviour why, is this logical, do you not see how this is rude. Be direct do not leave room for interpretation. Finally let them know and I personally say if you make them feel bad WHO CARES just remember how pissed you was!

LONG TIME

2010-04-10T22:33:00.005+01:00

I really need to get up on this
I have been so god damn busy
Or is this another typical excuse I am making up
Because I am so DAMN lazy
BLEH
:D
I have been busying with life
And complaining as usual
Some things do not change
Also eating more and more yummy food
I have been busy with my exhibitions
They have been killing me
And also working my part time job
I never thought I would be so busy so young
Next time
I will put some pictures of the exhibitions
I have been a part of up
PEACE
P.S A major whinge is on the way
Or is this one already?

Just because I said I would doesn't mean I will...

2009-09-06T21:01:00.006+01:00

Let me set the scene I am sitting on thick red carpet with a strange print very unique. I couldn’t even describe it if I had a picture of it in front of me. After hours of rushing around I finally was able to sit on this ominous red carpet but only to do another task for the exhibition. STRESS! (This is killing me slowly) I am sitting down in a rather demure posture cutting gluing and sticking my idea of therapeutic bliss, finally a moment of calm and alone. All the running up and down the stairwell that is as hot as a blasted green house; with its impressively hot (and I mean temperature) glass architecture.

Cutting, gluing and sticking... Then help comes thank god to speed up this somewhat slow process many hands make light work. I am innocently cutting, gluing and sticking when I stand up and feel and unnatural bump on the thick luxurious red carpet. I look down to see to my dismay that I have stood on someone’s glasses. Oh SHIT! I am so apologetic and sympathetic as I to wear glasses; my reflex action is to pay for the damage without giving it a second thought.

As the day drags on and I am relieved of all my stresses I then realise that I am not wholly or at all responsible for the damage to this person's glasses, as it is not responsible for the glasses wearer to leave their glasses on the floor, not expecting them to be broken or shattered. Now how do I say to someone that I really can’t afford to pay for you glasses, nor that I am not entirely responsible for not looking on the floor as I stand up. I say sod them and just tell them how it is and if they don’t like it they have learned a valuable lesson. Don’t leave your glasses on the floor!

Plus why should I buy some random person new glasses when I want to buy myself new glasses. I will always put myself first, selfish I may sound but human I am and compassion is something I may be lacking but I am not to BLAME.

Hi!!

2009-08-27T23:39:00.002+01:00

Just a little hello to all you who may encounter my blog. So a big wave to you and smile. I am in the process of getting my head around how to really navigate around this blogging stuff, but as soon as I start I will not stop whinging for one second. So get ready for a completely new revolution bring on the mind freeing whinge with a cheeky sushi.
:D
P.S some stuff will be quiet personal so; I may need you advice on how to handle the situation.